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Hollowmill Barn · Upper Flint Valley
The invitation
Eleven years ago we met queuing for the wrong train, argued about it for an hour, and have been arguing happily ever since. We are getting married in the barn at the top of the Flint valley, with the river below and everyone we like best in one room.
It is a country wedding, so plan for grass underfoot and a long evening. The ceremony is short. Supper is shared down one enormous table, served in the middle for you to pass along. The band plays until the coaches come.
There is no seating chart to memorise, no speeches you have to sit through twice, and nothing on the day that needs a printed schedule — it is all on this page, and this page will stay up until the week after.
With love — Noor & August
The order of the day
Come when the doors open if you can — the first hour in the orchard is the calmest part of the day, and the ceremony starts on time whether or not everyone is sitting down.
Park, walk up the gravel lane, and find cold lemonade and iced tea under the apple trees. Someone will point you at the cloakroom and the seating.
In the threshing barn, under cover. Half an hour, two readings, no hymns. Please be seated by twenty past.
Two hours of the loose, wandering part of a wedding. Photographs happen around you rather than to you — we will borrow small groups for about ten minutes each.
One table, everybody on it, dishes set down the middle to share. Vegetarian by default with roast lamb and a whole baked fish passing alongside.
Strictly three, strictly short. Cake is a stack of lemon and elderflower, cut and handed round rather than plated.
Two sets with a break, then records until close. The barn doors stay open to the lawn if the evening is kind.
The final song is at half past eleven and the coaches leave at a quarter to midnight from the top of the lane. They will not wait long.
Hollowmill Barn
A working stone barn with a timber roof, a walled lawn, and the river a field below. Most of the day happens outdoors; all of it can move inside in ten minutes if the weather turns.
Getting there & staying
The barn sits at the end of a single-track lane, which is the only genuinely awkward part of the trip. Your invitation carries the full address and the postcode that actually works in a satnav — the one on the map pin does not.
The lane is signed from the valley road and is wide enough for one car, with passing places. Take it slowly; there are walkers and, in June, a great many sheep.
Parking is on hard standing in the top field and is free. Cars may be left overnight and collected before noon on Sunday.
The nearest station is a twenty-minute drive away, on a line with roughly hourly Saturday services. Aim to arrive before one o'clock.
Taxis do not reliably wait at the rank on weekends, so book the outbound leg before you travel. If you tell us your arrival time on the reply form, we will try to pair you with someone driving the same way.
There are six rooms above the barn, already spoken for by family. The village below has a small inn and a handful of guest rooms, and the market town fifteen minutes away has more.
June is high season in the valley, so book early. Most guests coming any distance stay Friday and Saturday and make a weekend of it.
Notes for the day
Questions
Doors open at half past one and you are welcome from that minute. Before then the barn is still being dressed and there is nowhere comfortable to wait, so please do not arrive before one o'clock. If your train lands awkwardly early, the village below has a pub that opens at noon.
If your invitation names a guest, or says "and guest", then yes — put their name on the reply form. The barn seats a fixed number at one table, so we cannot add places beyond what the invitation lists. If you are coming alone and would rather not, tell us and we will seat you with people you know.
Two coaches leave the top of the lane at a quarter to midnight, one toward the village and inn, one toward the market town and the station hotels. Both are free and neither waits. Local taxis need booking days in advance for a Saturday night, and phone signal in the valley is unreliable, so do not plan to call one from the lawn.
Come for the weekend rather than the day. Flights land a long way from the valley and the last leg is slow. Most overseas guests arrive Friday afternoon; there is an unfussy welcome drink at the inn that evening, no invitation needed, just turn up. Sunday morning is lazy and there is coffee at the barn until eleven.
Yes, and please do — there is a field for it on the reply form. The band learns a handful of requests in advance and takes a few more on the night. They will not play anything that empties a dance floor, and they have earned the right to that judgement.
The ceremony barn, supper table, bar and accessible toilet are all on one level with a flat threshold. The approach from the parking field is compacted gravel, which is firm but not smooth; we can arrange a drop-off at the barn door instead. Tell us on the form and we will hold a seat at the end of a row with room beside it.
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One reply per invitation, please, by Saturday 3 April 2027. If your plans change after that, a late no is always easier to hear than an empty chair.